Tantra Massage

In this section you find some massage tips to enjoy with your friends. Please do not to eat for at least one hour before you start. Make sure that your bladder and bowels are emptied. If possible, try not to ejaculate that day or the night before.

Aromatherapy Massage Oils

You may want to use an oil or massage cream which allows your hands to glide smoothly over your partner. The effect of a warm oil being smoothly spread over your body is absolutely delicious.

As you move to new areas of the body, start by spreading a warm oil with your hands. This makes an astounding prelude to massage.

The chances of skin infection can be reduced through the use of aromatherapy oils. As well as providing a pleasant lubricant, they act as a useful protective barrier and have a certain amount of anti-bacterial activity.

Relax, don't do it

Men should to learn to relax, to receive and let go. From this perspective both receiver and giver relax into the massage. Traditional sexual conditioning has the man in a doing and goal oriented mode. Allow yourself to experience your softer, more receptive side and experience pleasure from a non-traditional perspective. Surrender to a form of pleasure you may not be used to.

Prepare for Fun

Take your time and breathe deeply. Conscious, relaxed breathing will take you out of your mental process and will get you more into your feelings. Relax your belly and let go of the tension that most of us hold there.

Let go of your thoughts and connect with your partner through hugging, holding, eye gazing (looking into each other's eyes for an extended time), bringing both of you to a place of relaxation and trust.

Explore each other

Take your time, relax and enjoy this intimate time together. Go easy, go slow. Spend some time talking about what you enjoy and what you would like to do. Talk about your fantasies.

Get in touch. Face each other and hold your hands. This creates an energy circle and gives you easier and deeper communication. Many things will become clear. You both will know what you wish to say.

Share a bath or shower. It will help you attune to each other more and you'll both share the same fragrance.

Afterwards go to that special place you have prepared for the massage. Cuddle up for a while to feel each other. When ready begin with the massage.

Tantra Massage Basics

Giving a massage is as meditative as receiving it. Close your eyes and follow your intuition. follow your feelings, go with the flow. You'll be amazed how good that can feel for both of you. Swap between giving and receiving every 10 or 15 minutes. This reduces the strain on your knees.

Gentle Moves

Maintain constant contact with your partner. As you move to different areas of the body do so in a continuous manner. Keeping contact helps the massage flow smoothly and increases intimacy.

Keep your movements rhythmic, even, and symmetric. By following smooth patterns your partner will be able to understand what is happening and will relax more deeply.

Use pressure that feels good to your partner. Listen to his responses and let him tell you how much pressure is just right.